Be happy in your space.
I’ll be honest and tell you this article was not supposed to be this article at all. But sometimes you need to go with the flow and simply write what is being manifested at the time (I’m big on manifesting).
I was going to write an article on developing your skill-set and working on personal growth.
I decided to go to a coffee shop and write instead of my home office… and that got me to asking myself, “Why am I doing this? Why go to a crowded coffee shop when I have this excellent space at home?” And then I realized it was because I wanted to, simple AF!
As much as I am a planner (I literally need to plan my personal down time) sometimes you’ve got to go with the flow and try something new and just let things happen. Now I certainly do not mean on the larger scale of course (big life events, career planning, business, relationships.. at a deeper level). You are the master of your own destiny, and don’t ever forget it… or you could really fuck things up. At times it is okay to just go with it and see what happens. Hence this article in a coffee shop. (What a fucking cliché – but maybe I needed a cliché today).
What I’m getting at, and what my point is, is that you need not worry about things so much or restrict yourself to such stringent and specific guidelines all of the time if it is not necessary to do so. So… I changed my venue, on the fly changed the article I wanted to write about – changed the title four f’n times already and wondered if I used the word f*ck too much in it. Please, fucking-forgive me… 😊
NOW – LET ME ASK YOU…
Why do we constantly put so much pressure on ourselves to perform or do things in such a specific manner that we feel obligated to do it no matter what?
- Have you noticed you do this to yourself?
- Is it only you that you are answering to?
It’s crazy to think this process began to stress me out when I came here to this coffee shop and then contemplated changing the article. WTF? It’s a blog post (one I hope you enjoy – but I won’t lose any sleep over it if you don’t) and ultimately something I want to share with you in hopes of making a connection with you, yes you!
MY POINT – be happy wherever you are, whatever you are doing. Don’t stress so much; let yourself go with the flow and let your creative juices flow… you might surprise yourself. Life is all about personal choices and happiness. You might find a new place to venture out to, or maybe just start a whole new ritual that leads to all sorts of new found ideas, adventures, friends, or more…